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'As a parent, this is your worst nightmare': Sister of child at 'Grace' home speaks out

It is claimed the HSE was told of concerns about the foster home before Grace was placed there.

THE SISTER OF another young girl who spent time at the ‘Grace’ foster home in the south-east has described how her mother told of her concerns about the home before Grace was placed in its care.

In an interview with David McCullagh on Prime Time tonight, it was claimed that Sarah (not her real name) was another victim of an attacker in the home.

The Grace case concerns a young woman with intellectual disabilities who was in care. Allegations arose that she had suffered years of abuse, but despite the allegations she remained at the home for 20 years.

Sarah’s sister described how the young girl was playing with her mother one Sunday afternoon. The mother said an innocent turn of phrase and Sarah began taking her clothes off and got into a sexual position. Her mother was horrified and started demanding answers from all those who had a duty of care to the young girl, who has intellectual disabilities.

Sarah’s sister said: “I mean, as a parent, this is your worst nightmare. Sarah was home on a Sunday afternoon with Mom playing in the a sitting room.

Mom said a very innocent turn of phrase and to her absolute horror Sarah kind of Sarah got into a position, took down her pants, and kind of got into a sexual position and as you can imagine for any Mum, my mum was shocked and she just was you know immobilised.

Sarah’s mother removed her from the home and brought her to a care centre in the North.

According to Sarah’s sister, her mother would have been the very first whistleblower in this case. Yet she claims nothing was done after the complaints were made.

“Not only was she met with a brick wall, they came down really hard on our mother, there was reports written up, they were quite aggressive towards the family, they just totally bullied us into thinking that it was all just in Mam’s head while on the other hand they were doing all of these checks themselves and reaching a decision. Their lives have been robbed in so many ways.”

A commission of investigation into the Grace case is expected to begin in the next six months.

Anti Austerity Alliance Junior Minister Finian McGrath Sam Boal / RollingNews.ie Sam Boal / RollingNews.ie / RollingNews.ie

Terms of reference were agreed at Cabinet yesterday – and while the Minister with responsibility for disabilities, Finian McGrath, says that the inquiry will provide answers for everybody concerned, others have criticised the scope of the investigation as not going far enough.

The commission of investigation will seek to establish how Grace was placed with her foster family in the first instance, the decisions made that saw her left there, and what monitoring was undertaken. The first module of the investigation will focus on Grace, alone.

However, this is something which Sarah’s sister doesn’t agree with.

“I just wonder why Finian McGrath in his role as the minister, particularly in his role as minister for disability, has chosen this path. We have looked under the freedom of information for Sarah’s files to know who has had access to her file and yet we still haven’t got that.

“In one sense I think we’re very fortunate that we have some really strong individuals who have gone forward as whistleblowers and we know that whistleblowers are not treated very well in this country.

But I think without them and without the support of lots of champions in the area, this story would be very easily forgotten about and the absolute horrors that have been inflicted on young vulnerable children would be just laid to rest because again the key seems to be keeping it nice and narrow.

Read: HSE ‘regrets but understands’ why Grace’s mother won’t accept their apology

Read: Grace: The four missed opportunities to make her safe

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    Apr 26th 2022, 6:45 PM

    Michael O’Leary needs to remember that he is the CEO of an independant airline, and when government’s need to make such decisions for whatever reason, of course they will favour their airline that they pump public money into…anything else would have them lynched.

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    Apr 26th 2022, 6:50 PM

    @Joe_X: I don’t think thats the point. It’s the favouritism towards Lot Airlines (illegal under European law) that is the source of the complaint. If it’s true; Ryan Air is correct to complain.

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    Apr 26th 2022, 7:00 PM

    @Vonvonic: It is and Ryanair are right. Pure protectionist policies that will drive prices up for those who have fewer alternatives. Not the first time this Polish government have attempted to have their cake and eat it too, when it comes to EU membership. Fair dues to Ryanair in this instance, one of the few corporations with the resources to take on Governments engaging in sharp practice.

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    Apr 26th 2022, 7:07 PM

    @Eoin Roche: 100% This has Kaczyński written all over it.

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    Apr 26th 2022, 7:14 PM

    @Vonvonic, Eoin Roche: So say it was an Irish Airline and the Irish government was putting public money into it, would you still be happy about that? After all it would be our tax money that the government would be putting into it, qould you still favour Ryanair’s complaint?

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    Apr 26th 2022, 7:24 PM

    @Joe_X: Not a question of liking it or not. It’s a question of legality.

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    Apr 26th 2022, 8:08 PM

    @Vonvonic: We can say what we want about Ryanair but Lot Airlines are a truly awful experience

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    Apr 26th 2022, 9:23 PM

    @Vonvonic: True, but now I have read the report correctly, I actually don’t think it is a case of favouritism or legality but safety of Polish airspace. Now, we all know how much Michael O’Leary, and therefore Ryanair likes to complain if it looks like another airline even looks like it is getting an advantage. Not for the fact another airline is getting more, but because it is free publicity, and despite being the country’s biggest success story, Ryanair really tries to portray itself as the underdog the whole time. Look at all the giving out they has done about Lufthansa over the years. However, when it comes to some cities which have 2 airports, it is nearly always the secondary one that Ryanair flies into, as it is cheaper. The thing is, most public money allocated to the airports would go into main airport’s facilities, and Ryanair would give out about that. Frankfurt in Germany is an examle of that. Warsaw is an even better example at the moment, as the article is saying that due to the ATC industrial actions the government has to reduce flights. Now this is so they can ensure that there is enough ATC staff to monitor and control aircraft in Polish airspace and it would make sense to give priority to the city’s main airport as it would be larger with better facilities, and that is the point of the Ryanair complaint. The secondary airport has to take the hit because there are not enough ATC staff to ensure the safety of both.

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    Apr 26th 2022, 8:49 PM

    Why can’t the Polish Air traffic controllers sneak in a few extra charges to Ryanair?

    Landing: €400
    Taxiing: €150
    Gate fees: €270
    Schedule changes: €620

    Would you like to add Fuelling to you visit?

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    Apr 26th 2022, 10:06 PM

    Population of Poland was 38mln two months ago is 41mln at the moment. I wouldn’t worry about tourism at the moment.

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    Apr 26th 2022, 8:01 PM

    From an economic perspective it would reduce tourism to their country. It would however reduce carbon emissions.

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